How many times do we keep asking the same thing and hoping that the answer will change? We used to do that when we were little. We kept asking until out teacher gave in. I say teacher because my parents weren't having it. No meant no. What about doing the same thing the same way- and expecting a different outcome?
Oh count the times. Yes we have been there, but there is hope from that rut, that pattern that we have gotten stuck in. It's called listening - listening to guidance- and the trusting that God's answer is the best for your life. Go ahead. This time trust and watch and wait. enough for now.