Give thanks for everything, the good and the bad. We miss the thought hat all things work together for the good . . . Not all good things work. You have so much to be thankful for- not just at thanksgiving bu everyday should be a day of thanksgiving.
Start right now. Make this the time that you try everyday to watch for your reasons to be thankful. Your day may look crummy; nevertheless, thank God for what it did't look like. You get the picture. And then by this time next year you will be a such a different place. I promise.
Blessings of joy and contentment on his day, in this season. enough for now.