So now how do you connect with positive 'ands'? Start with connecting with Holy Spirit. Ask which way, and then follow guidance. Watch what God is doing and go with that. Wait on it. Marvel each moment. Enjoy each moment of life that you have been given- it is a blessing! Get excited about your life and what God has in store for you. There, now you have connected with the ultimate 'And'.
Oh yeah, the ultimate 'And' was always there for you- now you get it. So now - being connected with the ultimate 'And' opens doors for you for positive connections, positive relationships. Allow Holy Spirit to guide you into those positive relationships and then cherish each one. Enjoy this day- you know who made it! type to you later.