So many things are happening. People are moving, lives are being rearranged. Look around- it is happening all around you. Yes, it is life. Now look at your life, you are moving, things are happening for you. True, it may not be quite what you expected- but it is your life. Determine if it is what you follow or what you change. How can you do that? Check with Holy Spirit. Oh I promise, you will receive guidance. And if it is not God ordained, then move to change it. If it is God ordained, then you will need guidance to follow through. Hold up, if it is not God ordained, then you will need guidance to change it.
Either way, life is happening and you need guidance. Watch what God is doing, each day, and follow Holy Spirit's directions. Your life is happening and if you follow guidance, then there are no worries on what might have been. Love your life and live on purpose- God's Purpose! type to you later.