It is sad that you have people with ugly ways everywhere- especially in the church. But you see, the church is where they should be- to receive healing. So don't look at them strange- but pray for them. The funny part is- they may be praying for you and your ugly ways.
Which ugly way did Holy Spirit reveal to you? Now that you are aware of it don't try to get away from it but walk with Holy Spirit toward the beauty. You see, we spend too much time and energy trying to get away from something instead of walking toward the good-the peaceful-the positive. Can you see it?
Get focused and keep moving toward beauty. Watch what God is doing in your life. enough for now.