How many times do you find yourself feeling 'stuck' in the same situation but with different events? You know, when you 'stay in' a situation for whatever strange reason- and you do come up with strange reasons. You stay in a bad relationship because you don't want to be alone - your worth. You hang out with people who allow your codependency because you need to feel better about yourself - your worth. You hold on to depressive or toxic relationships with people, places, or things because you have believed the lie that longevity is good. You know, your bank sucks and has no thought about you, yet you love the fact that your checks have larger numbers on them. You stay at a church where you are not fed, all because of its supposed influence, yet no one considers your spiritual needs. You allow toxic people in your personal life - you are afraid of being alone, so you take all kinds of junk, abuse.
You don't have to do it. You do not have to stay in the mess you are in. You can say 'no'. You can walk out, walk away, close the door, you can breathe. How? First you make the decision that enough is enough. When you are clear, then lament the wasted time in order to let it go. As you are releasing release hate, unforgiveness, bitterness. You must do that. You cannot carry the same junk. This is a new day. Allow Holy Spirit to guide you into the truth an away from the lies that have bound you.
Go ahead- the first move is on you. enough for now.