Why do we focus on the negative and not on the positive? Why do we miss the constructive comments of our lives and we get stuck on the destructive comments? What is it about negativity that causes us to lose our focus?
We miss so much of what God is doing because our focus is on what is not happening (or so we think). What will it take to stop, and listen? Listen to what Holy Spirit directs. What will it take? Try it. That is a shifting of your focus - from what you think to what God shows. . . from your will to God's will. Try it. enough for now.