I know it's hard to give when you think you h ave nothing to give, or when you need so much. But- you do have something to give. It is a part of your nature a a creation of a loving giving God. Hmm Don't want to give? Then check where your signals are coming from as it is not of God. If the signals are not from God, there will be no peace.
Loving and giving out of a loving relationship with God is all apart of who you are. You can start small. Try. Give a smile. Give a hug. Help someone. Listen to someone. There are so many ways. enough for now.